whores

I saw an interesting question one day: why is it that when women have sex with a lot of men they are considered whores but when men have sex with lots of women they are considered virile?

I think it's a matter of instinct, namely, of natural programming and evolution. A woman knows for sure that her baby is hers, a man can never know for sure that the child is his, that's why men don't like to be married to women who have been with many men. Well, now there are DNA and paternity tests, but we still have instincts.

On the other hand, men like to have many women, again evolution, it's the perpetuation of genes, the alpha male thing, this is why harems existed in ancient times, those men who had a harem were envied by everyone and the harem was well guarded with eunuchs.

There have never been, to my knowledge, women with harems of men. In the case of women it's simpler, women tend to want a male with good genes, quality is important to them, not quantity, this is the reason why they are so selective, they can have a small number of children, which cost a lot of energy. Men can have an unlimited number of children, so they are not very selective, many men would hump anything that moves.

This question follows: why do women consider other women with multiple partners as being sluts? I think it's because of the possibility that their men will go to the promiscuous women. Women are also naturally programmed to be jealous, like men, the reason is that women needed men to guard them against predators, to bring food, etc. Remember that humans have evolved under natural conditions, where a single pregnant woman had no chance of survival.